There’s a decapitated chicken in my freezer, tears in my eyes, and blood on my husband’s jeans.
One of my little chickens has been sick lately, and as much as I had hoped she would perk up again, it has not happened. When I saw her this morning, staggering in circles, I knew she had crossed the line into “suffering”. The decision was mine, and only mine, to make.
It’s a hard decision, to effectively order an execution, but it was made out of love and mercy. Watching a small creature suffering simply breaks my heart, especially when I have taken on the responsibility of looking after them.
While I could do the deed myself if I had to, I married a lovely, strong, kind-hearted man who probably felt it was easier to do it himself than deal with me crying for the next 3 days. By doing it himself, I only cry for an evening (and every time I open the freezer between now and rubbish day).
I’m going to be a complete girl about this and use this blog to say goodbye to my lovely little ginger friend. Thank you for all the wonderful eggs. Thank you for doing all the weeding. Thank you for the fertiliser. Thank you for eating all the bad bugs in my garden. Thank you for posing for so many photos to go with my Pullet-zer Prize winning chicken articles.
May you rest in peace and enjoy free-ranging in God’s garden.
Cemetery photo by Anna-Louise from Pexels
You made the right decision even though it was hard.
On a lighter note- loved how you wrote this from the start to finish. And a beautiful and well worded goodbye.
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Thank you x2. It’s always a hard decision with pets. It would help if they could talk, or you could explain to them. Pet ownership is a big responsibility. Thanks for your lovely comment xx 😃💖
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Aw… so sad. I’m sure she had a wonderful life with you. xx
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Thanks. Yes, thoroughly spoilt. I probably loved her to death!! 😲
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I can say that you WON I see that you made it to a 100 followers before me congrats 🥇🥇🥇🍨🍨🍨
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Thank you! 😃 I see you are getting into the swing of things with your blog 😃 I have to say, I’ve been sick with the flu and so I had a lot of boring hours to pass in bed, so spent a lot of time reading other blogs and commenting, instead of posting. So not only did I find lots of new cool blogs to follow, but I got a whole lot of follows too! Win win!! 🎈💖😃
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Thanks and hope you get better
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Thanks. Just trying to get over the tiredness now, then I should be back to normal 😀
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☺☺☺
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I nominated you for the liebster award
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Thank you sooo much 😀 I really appreciate that! 💜😁💙
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NP your blog is great
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Thanks 🌹 That means a lot 😁
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Good salute to a departed fr-hen-d. Always good to remember the good done by those who have met an untimely end. Oops, I was not planning on a poem. Growing up on a farm, I realized that farm life was not always cows grazing peacefully in a pasture, sometimes it was hamburger. Cheers. Allan
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LOL 😀 Nicely put! Thank you for your understanding and sympathetic post 😀💙
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Wendy, I have tears in my eyes. God only knows how I understand how hard that mercy decision is. God bless you and your kindhearted husband for showing mercy to someone you most definitely Loved. (((HUGS)))!!! And yes, I do believe Love is the right word to use.
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Thank you 💙 You’re so sweet xxoxx
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Awww that’s sad, glad they’re not suffering now 😦
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Thanks. Unfortunately the remaining chook now seems a bit depressed. She’s lost her buddy 😣 Not eating her greens, and slept in the nesting box. Probably cold without her friend to snuggle up to. May have to get her another friend.
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Oh, yes get her a friend and some chicken treats, whatever they may be…
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Silverbeet and meat!! 😲
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Poor, poor little hen. It sounds like her illness had begun to affect her nervous system since she was walking round in circles. You absolutely made the right decision to end her suffering and distress. I know how hard it is though – we kept hens some years ago and I loved them so much. x
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Thank you for understanding 💜 Yes, even though I tried to not get attached, you kinda get used to them being a part of the garden.
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I used to cuddle ours. They’d quite happily sit on my lap to be petted. ☺
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Aww, how sad. So sorry. 💜
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Thank you 💖
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I’m sorry to hear this story Wendy 😦 the death of a loved one, whether they have skin, feathers, or fur, is always a difficult death to live through. May she cluck freely in her next life, and I hope your other chicken recovers from the grief and comes to enjoy her new pal ^-^
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Thank you for your sweet sentiments 😁 They are very much appreciated.
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Oh Wendy, I’m sure it was hard for you, it always is. But on a lighter note I loved how you wrote about your little ginger friend, you my friend, are a definitely a writer!
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Aw, shucks 💙😆 Thanks, honey 😁 You know, they say we can only recognise things in others that we ourselves possess… 💜
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I’m so sorry to hear that you had to say good bye to your beloved feathered friend 😒It is SOOO hard to make a decision like this, but you know it’s best that she is no longer suffering. Sending hugs to you 😘
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Thank you. I think the decision was the hardest part, but I do feel like I made the right call. Thanks for the hugs 🤗 Everyone has been so supportive 😃 It’s so sweet!
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You did the right thing even though it was very hard. It’s hard to see them suffering.
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Thank you 😀 It helps to hear that 😀 Thank you for all your other likes and comments, by the way 😊💙
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You’re welcome, it is no problem at all. We all gotta support one another 😊🤗
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I agree, and that’s part of the fun 😀
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Oh yes definitely
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I nominated you for the liebster award ❤😊
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Thank you so much!! How sweet of you. I really appreciate it 😃
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😊❤
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Awwww so sad but sounds like she had such a fantastic life with you. So sad when we have to say goodbye to our furry or feathery friends. xx
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Thank you. Not only have I lost a chicken, but the other one is depressed, and my husband has gone paranoid, thinking she’s avoiding him because he killed her friend. 😂💜🌻 All of this over a sick chicken!! LOL 😀 And now I find myself in a very fowl mood 😂 hee hee
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Awwwww the poor chicken..that must be sad for her. Hopefully you can get a friend. Tell your husband I’m
sure the chicken won’t go all Jaws on him and hunt him down 🦈 🐓 I hope your fowl mood has lifted and your now feeling eggcited for the weekend 🤭😄 x
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That’s so punny!! 😃 LOL! I’m going to tell my husband about that – he’s terrified of sharks from watching that movie, so I maybe I can get him scared of a chomping chicken too!! 😃
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Haha 😂 😆
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I’m sorry for your loss. Its always so hard.
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Thank you 💕😃 And thanks for reading 😃
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I nominated you for The Liebster Award, please check the link below
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Thank you so much! I really appreciate that, and I loved reading about you in your post 😁
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Very well deserved. I love what you write.
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Thank you 💜 It makes me so happy when people enjoy my writing 💙😃
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Bless her little soul!
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Crying ..yet..such a beautiful way your words weaved the tribute..so sorry for your loss..but you did the loving thing..love is hard at times..
Namaste..
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Thanks 💖 Yes, the price of big love is big loss, and yet we still keep doing it over and over…💖
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This was so good and also so sad, It’s always hard when we have to do things like that. I had to put down a family pet and it tore at me and even did a post about it.
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Glad I’m not the only one to feel the need to post about a dead pet 😉
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